An elderly carpenter was ready to retire. He told his employer-of his plans to leave the house building business and live a more leisurely life with his wife enjoying his extended family.

He would miss the paycheck, but he wanted to retire. They could get by. The contractor was sorry to see his good worker go and asked if he could build just one more house as a personal favor. The carpenter said yes, but his heart was not in his work. He resorted to shoddy workmanship and used inferior materials. It was an unfortunate way to end his career.

When the carpenter finished his work and the builder came to inspect the house, the contractor handed the front-door key to the carpenter. “This is your house,” he said, “my gift to you.”

What a shock! What a shame! If he had only known he was building his own house, he would have done it all so differently. Now he had to live in the home he had built none too well.

So it is with us. If we build our lives in a distracted way, reacting rather than acting, willing to put up less than the best. At important points we do not give the job our best effort. Then with a shock we look at the situation we have created and find that we are now living in the house we have built. If we had realized that we would have done it differently.

Think of yourself as the carpenter. Think about your house. Each day you hammer a nail, place a board, or erect a wall. Build wisely.

It is the only life you will ever build.

Even if you live it for only one day more, that day deserves to be lived graciously and with dignity.

The plaque on the wall says, “Life is a do-it-yourself project.”

Your attitudes and the choices you make today will be your life tomorrow, build it wisely.

Cool story, huh? Nicely put.

Oh yeah, let’s alltogether start looking at this everyday:

Mary Pickford:

“If you have made mistakes…
there is always another chance for you…
you may have a fresh start any moment you choose,
for this thing we call ‘Failure’ is not the falling down, but the staying down.”

Even though my mandarin quite terra, but for some funny reason I just can’t seem to read this-lah *tsk tsk*, but if I’m not mistaken it’s supposed to mean “strength”-lah… ekeke

Have to admit, can be tiring to get up sometimes, but I guess if life was so predictable, it would definitely become boring and dull after a while, then it wouldn’t be as fun, right?

That’s what I learned from Robbins anyways, it’s definitely a more positive way of looking at things I guess…

(But sometimes, when we know what’s in store for us in the future also quite syiok-hor hahaha..)

Ok-lah, let’s just accept life as it is and see what comes out-lah…